I can't get it up to...?

don'tt feel like your missing out on life just because your not doing things that maybe your friends would be doing.to each is own.your probably just fixated on her and keep thinking of her when your with someone else and that gets you distracted.maybe you just like that shes a virgin and thats what your most attracted to and these other girls aren't.you should stop teasing yourself with those little massages.she most likely wont go all the way since shes a virgin and is probably just testing things out with you.